The unstitching

There is a reason why we meet a crossroads of challenges in our lives.

You either keep the stories you’ve got, or you find a way to deconstruct your stories.

Those stories you’ve been holding on to for so long are so debilitating and you think they will never go away. But you just need to see a new view, change your perspective just a little. All that happened was you’ve heard the story so often, you have begun to believe those stories are real.

But it’s so far from the truth. Those stories you’ve held on to for so long, are just one version, one cut of a multitude of views.

It’s time to be a director, and edit the movie, so that you become the author of your life. So that you realise you are at the heart of writing your story, re-writing the script, re-shaping the scene.

What stories have you been holding on to and how do you catch them?

You observe. Be a private investigator of your own stories. Watch yourself like a hawk. Listen to what keeps on arising. Write the common words and themes. Don’t make yourself wrong. Just investigate. Investigation is all about collecting the evidence and the facts.

Begin today to really listen to yourself. You’ll have some really beautiful insights. And you’ll begin the unstitching to uncover the real you.